You had been a challenge for her. You had a superior value and she had been irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm preparing to make a wild guess here, however is it that as time went on, you started to be less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that at this time, you are zero challenge for her? And that she knows if she wanted to, at any moment she could get you back again and twisted around her finger simply by saying the word?
I am going to be crude here, however as you know, to become a challenge once more you have to show to your ex lover that her sexuality does not have any control over you any longer. Consider what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that consider exactly what it's like when you continue doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're suggesting to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other dating choices.
Your lady will not respect you again until you reject her sexual power over you. Luckily you're doing that now by not directly corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Don't be "pals" with her, because that rewards her with the ongoing validation of power over you while giving her a comfortable reason to stay split up. (Your lover justifies that she's letting you down easy that way, assuaging any guilt she may feel.)
Then again, always keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. More than likely lots of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She may ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you would like everything back again.
The right response to this is "No, not yet. The rationale is because her holding onto your things (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the next 3 weeks, you need to fully recognize -- and embrace -- the idea that you are an independent guy now. Take what took place with your ex-lover and learn from it. You've got a fantastic opportunity to revolutionize your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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